by Robyn | Apr 1, 2023 | Personal Ramblings, Pet Loss, Pet Memorial, Senior Pets
Watching your senior pet age or losing a beloved pet to illness or an accident is never easy. John and I lost Peter, Luna, Jamie, and Guinness over the course of 4 years. Each one of them has left an incredibly deep void in our hearts.
Even if your pet has already crossed the rainbow bridge, you can still explore new ways to carry them in your heart. Creating new memories during your pet’s senior years or finding ways to celebrate the memory of a pet who has passed-on can help you on your own healing journey.
How you honor your pet is up to you and will help make sure their life story continues on. That’s how I felt when Peter passed. Since he was the first one of our pack to cross the rainbow bridge, I wanted to create a beautiful memory necklace that I could wear with a lock of his fur inside. That way I could feel him close to me, even though he was no longer with me. That is how I chose to honor him.
If you’re searching for a way to celebrate your pet’s life, I’d like to share these 5 ways that can help you carry them in your heart.
1. Hire a photographer for a portrait
A professional pet photographer is an expert at capturing your pet’s personality. That’s what we do here at Muttography® & Co. Our goal is to capture your pet’s personality through soulful images that will last a lifetime. We’ve been photographing pets for close to 14 years, and sadly, many of our past clients have had to deal with their own loss in that time. It’s always an honor when our clients reach out to tell us how meaningful the photos of their beloved pet are to them.
2. Create a custom piece of wall art
You can make or hire someone to make you a piece of art that celebrates your pet’s life. One of my favorite artists, Ron Krajewski, paints beautiful watercolor portraits of pets. He will paint a custom portrait, or you can choose a breed from his collection of art prints.
3. Donate a memorial brick, bench, or financial donation to a shelter near you
Organizations like animal shelters depend on these types of donations. Check with your local shelter to see if they have a memorial program like a brick patio, visiting room furniture, etc. What an amazing way to honor your pet! The personalized patio brick or bench will serve as a physical legacy for your pet.
4. Celebrate their birthday, gotcha day or the anniversary date of their passing.
Take the day off work. Go for a hike in a place you shared together. Invite an animal-loving friend to share the day. Think about the special days of the year and plan remembrance celebrations ahead of time so you can look forward to them. Our Jamie’s birthday fell on St. Patrick’s Day, so we always celebrated with a nice long walk, and lots of treats. We still celebrate her, but now we do with our new pack, Hannah and Wyatt. We tell them that these treats are special because they’re from their big sister, Jamie.
5. Keep a lock of their hair or fur
You’re not crazy if you do. It’s a tactile way to remember what they felt like. Some creators can use the hair or fur to make jewelry, like I did with Peter’s fur, or other memorial items. My mom bought me these beautiful little handcrafted boxes to keep a lock of each of my pet’s fur in after they passed. It brings me so much comfort when I open the boxes and see a real piece of them in there.
Watching your pet age or dealing with the grief following a pet’s death can be heartbreaking and difficult. Don’t be afraid or ashamed to seek out professional support if that feels right for you.
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by Robyn | Mar 12, 2021 | Personal Ramblings
Hey friends! I know it’s been a while since we’ve posted anything to the blog (ehm, maybe two years) but I assure you, we are still here. If you’ve stumbled upon our little blog, you may have noticed that all the blog posts are messed up (missing photos, etc.) That would be because I feel the need to always tackle projects myself, instead of enlisting professional help. Well, somehow when I rebuilt the website, the blog didn’t transfer over all the files (whoops!) so, I will be spending the next few weeks trying to recreate 10+ years of blog posts. It’s actually not so bad since the frequency of my blog posts in embarrassingly low. Yay for being a slacker!
Tell me, is there anything that you’ve done or built that you wish YOU hired a professional to do? (maybe the guy who laid down the tile in my kitchen – I wish he hired a professional, LOL!)
by Robyn | Dec 27, 2017 | Dog, Dogs, Personal Ramblings
One of the most difficult things to deal with as a pet parent is knowing how short our animals lives are. Before John and I went on vacation, Peter had a little cough and a limp in his leg. This wasn’t necessarily unusual, since the boy LOVES to swim and often gets water up his nose and down his throat. He also doesn’t know when to call it quits in the pool – so the limping (we thought) could have been due to his over-exuberance and not knowing when to stop. By the time John and I got back from vacation, Peter was still coughing and limping so we decided he needed to be seen by our vet. That’s when we were told something that no pet parent ever wants to hear – “he may have cancer”. After photographing a few dogs who were battling cancer, and listening to their parents talk about how hard it is to go through, we never thought we’d ever have to live through it ourselves.
Peter came to us in 2010, after we had been searching for a companion for our other dog Jamie. Since Jamie is the “boss” we knew our options were limited and we’d have to find a special pup who would be content as being “second in command”. We worked with the American Lab Rescue, and we inquired about several of their adoptable Labs. All of them were no match; either for Jamie, or because our fence was too low (apparently one was a jumper!) So when we were ready to put our search on hold, Liz from ALR said she had a guy in mind, who was coming up to Connecticut on the transport truck the following week. She told us about Peter, and that he was a sweet, submissive guy, and she thought he’d be great with Jamie. So, we decided to bring Jamie up to Peter’s foster mom’s house to meet him in person. We instantly fell in love with him, but Jamie – well, she didn’t really seem all that interested – which was good because that meant she didn’t have an issue with him.
For seven and a half years, Peter was given so much love, great food, his very own swimming pool, and lots of comfy beds throughout the house, but none of that mattered to Cancer!
Peter’s cancer was extremely fast growing. He actually had two types of cancer – Osteosarcoma in his leg and Adenocarcinoma in his lung. This explained his limping and coughing. Apparently, we were told, having two types of cancer is rare. If he only had the Osteosarcoma, we could have had his leg amputated, but since he had multiple lesions on his lung from the Adenocarcinoma, putting him through a surgery like that would have put his already week body through hell – for nothing. When we asked about chemo, the doctor said it may buy him another 3 months but that was no guarantee. So, we agonized over it, and knew that putting him through chemo wouldn’t save him in the end. We scheduled a day in November to have our vet come to the house to help him on his final journey. We all cried and cried, and told ourselves we were doing the right thing. We had friends and family come to say their final goodbyes. Then, it hit us, HE doesn’t know he has cancer! He’s still acting fine, still eating fine, walking and playing fine! Why do we have to say goodbye so soon? We asked the vet if she thought it would be ok to postpone his journey, and she thought that it was a good idea too. So, we promised to give him the best palliative care, until HE was ready to say goodbye.
Peter was with us until the day after Christmas. We had our vet come over that afternoon to help him cross over. It was one of THE hardest things I ever had to deal with in my life! He gave us so much joy and love. I truly believe this dog was my soul-mutt, and I will be forever grateful for the comfort he gave me during one of the most difficult times in my life.
I will love you always, my sweet boy.
by Robyn | Mar 13, 2015 | Dogs, Personal Ramblings
Last weekend, we ventured out in the snow and met my brother’s new puppy Skye, the Samoyed. O.M.G…isn’t she adorable!!! She has the sweetest puppy breath, and the fluffiest puppy butt! I am so excited to welcome her into the MUTTography family!! Welcome Skye!!
click below to see a few more….
by Robyn | Apr 5, 2014 | Dogs, Family Photography, Giving Back, Personal Ramblings, Travel
We’re a little late blogging about our recent trip to Kauai – Not because it wasn’t a spectacular vacation, but because we took a GAZILLION photos and we had to weed through them all!!!
We got to Kauai a little around 6:30pm (Hawaii time – which is 6 hours behind East Coast time), so after a day of flying, we were pretty spent! We did manage to get up enough energy to go to Duke’s Canoe Club for dinner – and it was amazing! We spent the first night at this cute little place called The Kauai Inn at Nawiliwili Harbor before we made our way for a timeshare we booked up in Princeville. Apparently, Princeville, and the rest of the North Shore, are the “rainiest” part of the island (who knew?) Well, it was true, and we did managed to get our fair share of rain. It was fine though, after all – we were on vacation! Haha!
Kauai is such a beautiful island. It seems to be very unspoiled by tourists (yeah, I know we were tourists too!) The landscape is very natural, not a lot of built-up areas, and even in the “touristy” parts weren’t overly touristy. It was just an incredibly relaxing place. One that I would definitely want to visit again! While we were on Kauai, we decided to volunteer at the Kauai Humane Society. We ended up going out on a “field trip” with one of their adoptable dogs, named Maka. When we got there, the staff at KHS told us we could check the kennel area, and choose up to three dogs – from the three, they would help match us up with the one who would be the best fit for us. We chose Maka, since he hadn’t been out on a recent field trip, and because when we walked by his kennel, he gave us the sweetest puppy-dog eyes, so we just HAD to choose him! Well, Maka ended up being a wonderful field trip pup! He walked on the beach with us, then walked along the Kapaa Bike Path with us, then when we stopped for lunch, he was just THE perfect pup! He just relaxed under our picnic table and waiting until we were done (his reward was a taste of my mahi mahi fish taco!)
Here are just a few of the gazillion photos we took!
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We met several other very lucky island pups while we were on Kauai! We met Georgia, a beautiful Lab mix at Anahola Bay. She was there to watch the sunset with her folks! We also met Prince, who apparently hangs out (by himself) at the beach at Ke’e State Park while he watches all the people swim and play in the water. On our final night in Kauai, we met Bill and Honey and a beautiful “tri-pod” named Molly Brown, who lost her leg after getting hit by a car.
Overall, Kauai was a SUPER dog-friendly island – and just a real people-friendly island in general! I miss it…but I will definitely be back!
Mahalo, Kauai!
by Robyn | Dec 29, 2013 | Cats, Dogs, Personal Ramblings
We hope you are enjoying the holidays and spending time with your loved ones. We, at MUTTography Pet Photography, are delighted to have had so many wonderful clients this year, and made lots of great new friends! There are some exciting new things coming down the pike for 2014, so please stay tuned and keep in touch. For now, we leave you with our crew…who (of course) are enjoying the gifts that Santa brought them and keeping us all entertained.
